Gay men have been going missing in Toronto’s gay village since 2010. Last month, an arrest was made by Toronto police and Bruce McArthur has since been charged with 5 counts of first-degree murder. Today, police announced that six bodies were discovered on his property.
In June, I went to Toronto for the Gay Pride Parade. I spent a lot of time in the Gay Village. The first afternoon I was there, a friend took me aside and told me to be careful because people were going missing from the Village.
“Okay,” I agreed. No questions, no surprise. I went to Pride. My friend and I had a great time. We went out. We stayed out. And we were careful.
I was in Toronto visiting friends over Christmas. On New Year’s Eve, my girlfriend at the time and I decided to head to the Village with some friends and hang out at a drag bar.
When we made plans, we were all keenly aware of the fact that there were rumors of a serial killer operating in Toronto’s gay village. We knew because we are queer, and we have queer friends, and we spend time in queer spaces.
In other words, we knew because we had to know.
It took me an afternoon of Googling to piece together how many people had gone missing in Toronto. The articles I did find generally came from the families of some of those who had gone missing, desperately searching for information, or from queer voices out of the Village, wondering why no one had bothered to take notice of a serial killer targeting a specific demographic of Toronto.
It was a rhetorical question. We all know why.
To make matters worse, a strong element of racial bias undergirds the entire investigation. The outcry from Toronto’s LGBTQ community details a sickening degree of racism and willful ignorance.
I should disclose that I live fulltime in Montreal. But my best friend lives in Toronto. I had a girlfriend there for several months. Two of my closest friends visit their parents in the city regularly. I made it my business to know when my friends were headed to the Village, and to make sure they checked in with me at the end of the night. There are some things that you don’t, as friends, always acknowledge openly. As a gang of queers in our early twenties, we tacitly agreed to keep an eye on another as best we could. Certainly no one else does. We knew that, too.
Toronto had a particularly intense cold snap at the end of December, and the city was offering free public transit for New Year’s Eve, so we gladly avoided walking when we could— we stayed warm, and, I thought, avoided ridiculous Uber fares.
“I wouldn’t want to take an Uber anyways,” one of the local girls remarked as I expressed fascination at the efficiency of Toronto’s streetcar system.
“Why not?” As someone who grew up in a small town with minimal public transit, and pitiful taxi service, I couldn’t imagine not taking advantage of [carpooling services].
“Well, they think the guy abducting people from the village has been posing as an Uber driver,” my friend told me nervously. “So I don’t really want to take an Uber to the Village and back. Just in case.”
By this point, 7 people had gone missing from the village since 2010. The latest victim had disappeared only a month prior, on November 25th, 2017.
On New Year’s Eve, I smoked a joint on Bloor and paraded my drunken self up and down the street with no problem. I did not see a single police car or officer.
Toronto’s police force has been under fire for months for abandoning previous investigative projects regarding the missing men. Despite outcry from the LGBTQ community, Toronto police declared last year that there was no evidence of a serial killer at work in the Village.
Between 1975 and 1978, 14 gay men went missing from the Village. Police suspected a serial killer at the time, but half the cases—in which 7 gay men were brutally and violently murdered—remain unsolved today. McArthur was in his mid-twenties at the time.
It took me a fair amount of research and time and reaching out to put together enough information to realize the scale of silence and avoidance on behalf of media across Canada and the Toronto police department. I don’t wonder why. Dead queers are not headline news. Especially if they aren’t White. Or they’re queer women. I suppose, in the end, a serial killer is only as interesting as his victims.
And so this is Toronto—Canada’s largest city, where the crosswalks are painted in rainbow colors. And this is homophobia. This is transphobia. This is racism. And this is Montreal. New York. Every small town, big city, or backwater village in North America. Rainbow flags in storefront windows do not mean a damn thing when we are being picked off and abandoned. We cannot be quiet. I will not be quiet and pretend like this is not happening merely because it is happening to people condemned to expendability by virtue of their sexuality, ethnicity, or gender.
I’m done hearing things about living in a “post-gay” moment. I’m sick of listening to people whine about tolerance and inclusivity and bathroom policies. “It’s 2018,” people sigh at me. “No one cares about this stuff anymore.”
I’m going to start telling people that they’re right. No one does care about this stuff anymore.
I’m just not sure they ever did.
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I wish all the victims and all those affected by the atrocities in Toronto–friends, families, fellow queers, and LGBTQ folks alike—peace, wellness, and justice. Don’t sleep on this. We cannot be silent.
RIP.
- Skandaraj “Skanda” Navaratnam
- Abdulbasir “Basir” Faizi
- Majeed “Hamid” Kayhan
- Selim Esen
- Andrew Kinsman
- Alloura Wells
- Chase Kincaid
- Tess Richey
- Majeed Kayhan
- Soroush Mahmud
- Dean Lisowick
@allthecanadianpolitics do you know anything about this?
I’ve posted a LOT about this.
You can find all I’ve posted about this disturbing story under the following hashtags: #Bruce McArthur, #Toronto, #LGBTQ, #Serial Killer, and #Homophobia.
Tonight I posted a new disturbing development in this story:
Remains of 6 people found at property tied to alleged serial killer Bruce McArthur
Tag: death
My grandparents left their home country as children when they heard the whispering of antisemitism starting in their home town. They got out and fled to America so I and future generations could be safe from persecution and mass murder. Only 2 generations ago.
And now America is becoming that country that they probably would have fled.
If you are not resisting, you are part of the problem.
And yes, I want non-Jews to reblog
Except I’m sorry but it’s not is it? A couple thousand white dudes babbling about jew conspiracies is not equal to Hitler and the holocaust no matter what. A couple thousand vs a few million? Your country isn’t fucking dumb. They FOUGHT to SAVE your kind and lost tens of thousands of men in the process. How about, fucking stop making it sound like the majority is Nazi and actually do some research. Jesus fucking christ.
Funny, since the Russians freed more prison camps than the US, including Auschwitz. The US didn’t care about the camps, they cared about fighting the ally of their declared enemy, Japan. And the US almost sided with the Nazis and had a large Nazi party in our boarders all the way up until (and even a little after) we entered the war.
Also do you know how large the Nazi party was at it’s peak? Just 7% of the German population. Smaller numbers don’t mean shit when they have people that aid and abet them by saying shit like “oh don’t worry they are too few to do harm.”
“My kind” have centuries of actual oppression running through our history, we can sense when something has changed and when it’s coming (back, again), it’s in our blood. Our grandparents and great-grandparents always told us to always have a bag packed, because they were afraid this would happen. “My kind” always know they will come for us again.
Hell, this isn’t some “oversensitive Tumblrina sjw” thing, here’s an actual Auschwitz survivor: “I see men, hatred on their faces, with torches in parades and screaming, just like the Nazis did to us years ago. I see torture and violence and swastikas and I was brought back to the worst moments of my life. I couldn’t believe they were speaking English, that this was in Charlottesville. I thought this nightmare was in the past, way in the past.“
*Grabs every single author who has ever thought that it was okay to kill off the cripple*
http://www.cnn.com/2016/07/25/world/japan-knife-attack-deaths/index.html
DO YOU GET IT NOW!?
THIS IS NOT A FUCKING GAME!
PEOPLE ARE KILLING US EVERY DAMN DAY BECAUSE THEY THINK THAT EVERYONE’S LIVES WOULD BE BETTER OFF IF THE DISABLED WERE DEAD! THEY’VE BEEN DOING IT FOR CENTURIES AND THEY’RE STILL DOING IT! SO DON’T YOU DARE SIT THERE AND PRETEND THAT YOU’RE NOT ADDING TO THAT DAMAGE, THAT YOU’RE JUST WRITING FICTION, THAT IT WAS JUST FOR SHOCK VALUE OR TO SEND A MESSAGE BECAUSE EVERY TIME YOU WRITE A CHARACTER WHO THINKS THAT THE WORLD WOULD BE BETTER IF THERE WAS ONE LESS CRIPPLE, THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO IS SHARING THAT SAME EXACT PHILOSOPHY, ONLY WHILE YOU GET TO GO HOME TO YOUR DAMN MANSIONS AND RAKE IN YOUR MONEY, THEY GO OUT AND THEY GET A GUN, A KNIFE, A GUN, AN ICE PICK, AND THEY TAKE IT UPON THEMSELVES TO RID THE WORLD ONE CRIPPLE AT A TIME!
SO THE NEXT TIME YOU’RE SITTING AT YOUR LAPTOP, READY TO KILL OFF ANOTHER CRIPPLE, JUST REMEMBER THAT IN THE REAL WORLD, SOMEONE IS ABOUT TO BEAT YOU TO IT.
…Sorry I just…really needed to get that off my chest.
Sorry.
Yeah, they do it to demonstrate evil. If you show a character is fascist, that’s to remind people that real life fascists exist and are a danger to innocent people.
You know what, mate, normally I’m a very passive and easygoing person but I’m currently reeling over a killing spree that left twenty disabled people dead and fifty more injured so I’m going to ask you with the utmost politeness to shut. up.
This is supposed to be a month of Pride. a month where the LGBTQIAP+ community stands up collectively to celebrate our identities, our worth, and our communities bravery as a whole. It’s a month to remember LGBTQ history, the things they don’t tell you in the history books: the Stonewall Riots of 1969, the assassination of Harvey Milk, the AIDS Crisis, the legalization of same sex marriage in various countries, people killed for loving someone, and most importantly: the worth of each queer individual and the validation of their identity. Instead I have kids on the internet and in real life (who barely understand who they are, who were just coming to terms with their identities) scared that they will be the next victim of hate. I have mainstream media ignoring the fact that this mass shooting, one of the deadliest in US history, took place at an LGBTQ nightclub on Latinx night. Instead they focus on the shooters ties to “extremist Islam”. They ignore the bravery that the victims held in choosing to go out and celebrate their truth, despite hatred still very real within the USA; the bravery the rest of the community has in still finding something to celebrate this Pride month. I have friends and strangers around the world banding together to spit in the face of this hate. So much love has gone around, but we are all so tired. Now people have to once again decide if their identity is worth dying for. Is it worth going to a Pride Parade if there’s a chance you could die?
Next time someone asks why there isn’t a Straight Pride, why “the gays” still need pride “they can get married now, what more do they need?” I want them to be gently reminded of this day where over 50 people lost their lives, and even more were injured physically and psychologically due to one man’s hatred of people he didn’t understand and did not want to understand. I want them to be reminded of the decades of persecution: from Oscar Wilde, Roger Casement, the LGBTQ victims of the Holocaust, the Lavender Scare, and now Pulse in Orlando (and this is just in Western culture, just a brush with the suffering those in the LGBTQ community have faced). To any of you still reading who are LGBTQIAP+, I applaud your bravery of living your truth, even if it is only with yourself. Stay brave, keep loving the world and especially yourself, and know that it has to get better because you and I and individuals like us are the future.
My deepest condolences to the victims and their friends and families, rest in peace and know that you are loved by many.
– Adrienne